LOVE

Redefining Love

(Daily Redefining Meditation)

=The Father/The Mother creates our first relationship ideal. The father/daughter relationship and mother/son relationship models our intimate relationships. Therefore, healing the father/the mother image and father/daughter, mother/son relationship through daily redefining meditation empowers the relationship ideal and model for a close relationship.

Daily Redefining: Healing is re-connecting with the father/the mother with boundaries and conscious decision–yes or no. Yes to appropriate love pattern and No to inappropriate love pattern.

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=Past Relationships mirror to us the intuitive connection we have with ourselves. They show us how we go against intuition, distrust intuition, deny intuition, cultivate intuition and honor intuition. Every relationship brings us closer to our self-esteem and self-worth by revealing lack of intuition and power of intuition. The more triggered we are the better chance we have at advancing our intuition that is established through self-examination and conscious choice making. Healing past relationships through daily redefining meditation activates intuition to better support self-esteem/self-worth and clear relationship choice.

Daily Redefining: Healing is self-examination and conscious choice making.

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=The Social Norm is ego self-protection that has us go for relationships based on limitation––transactional, sexual appeal, procreation, parental influence, friend “group think”, religious relationship limitation to protect us from conflict with others, disapproval, loneliness, lack of self-acceptance and discouragement. Ego self-protection can bring emotional and spiritual unfulfillment that overtime creates agitation and resistance, feelings of being dishonest with self and other. Healing social norm through daily redefining meditation nourishes self-acceptance to best support freedom and discovery.

Daily Redefining: Healing is self-acceptance.

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=Childhood Conformity in relationships reflect our uninspired, unexpressed and low creativity as a child due to parents, care takers, who shamed, judged or blocked the flow of inspiration, expression and creativity. This shows up in relationships as codependency, “needing the other to feel creative/inspired,” relationship stagnancy, a partnership that doesn’t grow in abundance or in spirituality and relationships with major restrictions that is uptight, overly serious and controlling mates or being anal (angry), demanding and insecure because the inner child isn’t whole to fill up one’s own chalice and demands a partner to do it. Relationships are unstable because the inner child isn’t whole and therefore, cannot offer wholeness of expression and intention. Healing childhood conformity through daily redefining meditation concentrates energy on artistry for personal balance.

Daily Redefining: Healing is inner child discovery of natural expression and talent.